It Must Be Love!...or maybe not

A single woman's not-quite-bitter diatribe on dating, men and relationships in San Francisco.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Are men purposely vague or do they just not know how to communicate?

Latin Heat sent me an email last night:

Hi Meredith,


It was great meeting you last night - it's a little unnerving just how much we have in common. Let me know if you'd like to do it again.

& let me know how your presentation goes.

Good luck,

Latin Heat


Bonus point for sending an email the day after the date. Bonus point for remembering that I had a very important presentation that I was nervous about.

Loses a point for sending an email instead of calling. According to He’s Just Not That Into You, the boy is supposed to pick up the phone and call! Loses a point for vagueness in his email. What does “Let me know if you’d like to do it again” mean? Does that mean he wants to do it again and doesn’t want to come across as pushy? Or does that mean that he could go either way and it’s up to me?

Learn to communicate!!!

My response:

Hey Latin Heat,

So if we have a lot in common, does that mean you’re a dork, too? :)

I had a good time. I’d be up for hanging out again. What does your schedule look like?

Presentation went well…I’m just relieved that it’s over.

-M

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